Today I sat holding my VBA3C baby. Not so much baby anymore. But it makes me think of the birth day. And I held this little peanut and felt it again. The way I felt when I first reached down and grabbed my baby from the doctor.
The Birth day matters. It’s such a holy God moment when new life comes and breathes its first breath. Only God gives life and the day a child enters the world, there’s nothing like it.
If you want your day to be the best possible do a few things:
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1. Choose your provider wisely. Not just anyone will do. Don’t try to make them seem supportive. They are or they aren’t.
2. Go with a plan. Knowing plans can change. But do plan for the best birth with a back-up plan up your sleeve only if necessary.
3. Handle any past pain before the birth. Let go of fear and anxiety. Look forward with joy. And if not, don’t force emotions on that day. Address them as they come.
4. Be willing to invest however you feel led be it with education (it’s important and free so just do it!), a doula, a chiropractor, maybe a massage here and there. It’s a one time event, prepare if you can.
5. Relax. Breathe deep. Take in the moments and trust the process.